Mary Kathryn Wyle
KEEPS Day Write-up
I attended university in a small North Carolina town with strong ties to the nearby Ada Jenkins Center, a community organization providing health, social, and especially education services to the lower income citizens of the county. Several of my friends volunteered at their food bank or tutored children for the after school program, but I, for one reason or another, never became personally involved. When I heard about KEEPS, however, I immediately thought of Ada Jenkins, and after a few emails I made contact with Diane Means, director of their after school program. Not wanting to rush the kids to fit KEEPS into an abbreviated week day time slot, I arranged to run KEEPS on a Saturday, and Diane began advertising it to the after school program children. She warned me, however, that Ada Jenkins had a history of poor Saturday attendance—though plenty of children seemed interested in KEEPS, she told me to hope for five participants. I crossed my fingers for more.
Saturday arrived and everything was running smoothly—I’d prepped the script, prepared the snacks, set up the paints—but only two girls arrived. Makayla and Tyresha, however, more than made up for their missing peers. Over Legos and a game of “hot potato” we got to know one another: Tyresha told me about her new baby brother and her recent birthday (a bowling alley party proved too expensive, so it remained a family affair), while Makayla informed me that her school had recently won a prize for excellence in North Carolina. Together, we built some very unseaworthy Lego boats.
Both girls took to the painting with gusto, occasionally enquiring about color mixing but generally intent on their work. Makayla finished her painting, of the blue ribbon her school had recently won, in about ten minutes, and made it her job to keep Tyresha supplied with an ever increasing array of colors. Tyresha, meanwhile, gradually sketched out her family until their smiling faces filled the canvas. As Tyresha’s family took shape, Makayla and I described our own families to Tyresha. A friend of mine arrived in the midst of the painting, bearing her camera, and Tyresha and Makayla were only too happy to pose with their artwork. After setting their canvases aside to dry and cleaning up the buffet of color that Makayla had created, we turned snacks-for-ten into snacks-for-two and debated the relative merits of jelly bean flavors and girl scout cookies. After hugs and thank yous and promises to send pictures, we all returned home.
I’m curious what it is about the weekend that makes it so hard for Ada to find children. On a weekday afternoon there is no shortage of kids, from the time school gets out until the last parent leaves work. Speaking with Diane after my KEEPS weekend, she shook her head and related how nothing seemed to work on weekends: not free tickets to baseball games or amusement parks, not basketball clinics, or, apparently, art projects. Ada Jenkins contributes to the community in countless ways both great and small, but for whatever reason, the weekend wall seems insurmountable. Are the parents working, or too tired to bring their kids in? Are the children content to watch TV rather than leaving the house? Many of the children live within walking distance of the center, and I couldn’t help but wonder if there was some American mentality that accounted for their absence—apathy? Parental over-protection? Too few hours in the day? I shared a day with two wonderful little girls, but for every answer Tyresha and Makayla gave me, I found myself formulating twice as many questions that can’t be answered, as the respondents just weren’t there.
Ada Jenkins Contact Information:
www.adajenkins.org
The Ada Jenkins Center
PO Box 1842
Davidson, NC 28036
In addition to after school care, the Ada Jenkins center runs “Loaves and Fishes,” a neighborhood food bank; Ada provides job search assistance, translation help for the area’s rising Latino population, a free dental and free medical clinic, and contacts to many other local charitable organizations with other specialties.
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